Real Life Moments with Friends

Friend: Oh this picture of the Boston Marathon runner is hot, did he live?

Me: Bitch, that's one of the Boston bombers!

Friend: Oh... Why do I always think the wrong ones are hot?

Me: -Facepalm-

What's Happening with My Friend, K

Some of you have asked about my friend, K. He was the one I had to put out in order to help him. That was about 3 weeks ago...

Now, K is in Florida with his mother. My other friend talks to him every other day.... I haven't spoke to K since that night.

K has decided to stay in Florida, and get a place for him and his mom. However, he won't get any help or see a counselor. K thinks he fine for now. I wish K realize that he really needs help. It makes me so mad he continues to avoid this issue. K told another friend of ours that his illness was just an emotional roller coaster and he just wants to forget it.

Well, we can't forget it. His 'breakdown' was like a harsh light in our eyes. None of us can't forget that weekend. And I wish he would embrace it and learn from it. My biggest fear is that it will happen again and no one will be prepared to deal with it. I really hope K's mom encourages him to see a counselor. I want him to conquer this illness. I guess, I still want my old friend back. I know it won't be the same, but I just want to know he's trying to fight for his life.

My Friends are coming for the Holidays

My friends from college are coming in today! Tavares is coming from NYC and JuneBug (Charles) is coming from Lexington, KY.

It's been raining for 6 days straight, so I hope it gets sunny for their vacation. I will be posting light (I doubt it), but I will post pics of their vacation.

The things I learn from my Friends

One of my friends, The Boy from Ohio, has some interesting beliefs about sex and friendship.

He can hook up with a guy without feeling any emotional attachment. He calls it fun, "We're just having fun, that's all," he says.

But here's the catch... If they start falling for him, he cuts them off, claiming they're taking it too far. I asked him why he drops them so easily and he said, "I don't want any drama. If they get caught up, it's their fault."

He also believes it okay to fool around with his friends because it's a part of the friendship deal. He says it's a clause of the friendship contract. I ain't never heard of that, but he swears by it. Now, I haven't slept with my friends. I think that's a line you shouldn't cross, but The Boy from Ohio... Let's just say if I was single, he would try to sleep with me.

And finally, he thinks a pity f**k is a great thing to do for a less attractive friend. He said it's like a gift you give to a loyal companion. When I asked what happens if the less attractive friend gets attached, he said, "It's their fault it they get caught up, I was just doing them a favor."

We talked about this for hours and still I didn't get it. However, it's his views and he's my friend.

But I tell y'all, he makes me feel like an old fashion gal with a strict Christian upbringing sometimes.

"Soundtrack to My Day" has been Nominated for a Bloggie!

Pic: Howard and Tom Gross

My buddy, Howard, the creator of the super fun music blog, "Soundtrack to My Day" has been nominated for a Weblog Award or Bloggie!

The category is Best Weblog about Music and personally, I think his blog should win hands down.

If you haven't seen Howard's blog, click on the title above. He will take you down memory lane and introduce you to new and upcoming LGBT artists. Plus, he's a great person, so why not vote for him?

Anywho go here, 2010 Bloggies and vote for Howard's "Soundtrack to My Day"!

Boys will be Boys

My friend just told me something quite interesting.

Back in his college days, he and some of his frat brothers would jack off together. They would watch some straight porn and just jack away.

Now, they wouldn't touch each other at all. They would just do their own thing (as a group). However, he did say they would cheer each other on when they got close to popping their corks.

I was floored to hear this. I mean, I thought this was an urban legend. How could they do something like this without breaking into full orgy mode?

And the cheering piece? If I was there, I would slip up and say something like: Yeah, John! Let me help you out! or Yeah, Dave jack that fat hard hot cock for me! I would have blown it and not in a good way.

He said it was no big deal and they thought nothing of it. I have a hard time believing that statement. I know some of them had to hook up after those "bro" sessions.

Have any of you experience something like this?