Hmm...

So what's going on with me

Hi everyone, just giving you a quick update on what's been going on my crazy life. Some of you know I left my job at USC over year ago. I start working at a property management company where I dealt in customer service. I hated it! I hated dealing with entitled adults. I mean, I don't mind young entitled kids but adults? No ma'am!

So, after a year of dealing with leases, clueless rich folks and watching countless hours of Netflix, I found a new job. I am an Assistant Director of Admissions and Orientation. I still get to live in LA and I'm making a lot MORE money now.

I actually start today, so I'm excited.

I haven't given up on writing, but I do need a strong day job to handle business. I've been rewriting and preparing scripts to go out. My graphic novel is almost done and I've worked on another script with friends. In all, I'm very fortunate right now.
Okay, enough of my rambling. I just want update y'all on what's happening with me.

After Thanksgiving

I hope you had a great day yesterday. It's always good to slow down, eat and be surrounded with people that you love, or people that enjoy your company.

But in all, I hope you had opportunity to know why you're grateful for life.

We only get one, so always try to make the best of it.

Awww

I know this is old, but it made me smile

Comparison of Americans’ Weird Habits Infographic

This is something else! Thanks to Alex Hillsberg and FinancesOnline 

This is how I deal with Haters and Sad Folks

Me, when Colleagues start Arguing at Happy Hour

10 Major Life Struggles we Often Revisit

I thought about this on the plane ride from DC and finally decided to post it.

In our lives, there are things we struggle with in some form or fashion. We may master them at times, but they often resurface. For me, I usually deal with some of these from time to time. So, let me list these issues and let me know if you have had similar matters.

1. Getting the way of your own dreams
2. Forgetting who you are and what you are capable of
3. Priorities in the Wrong things
4. Not Speaking out or up
5. Not Enjoying the small victories
6. Getting caught up in Sad People's lives
7. Doubting more than Believing
8. Not ready to accept Love
9. Going the Wrong way
10. Settling for less than good

Something I'm Learning...

It's a gift and a curse to see a person for who they really are. Because no matter how many times you give them the benefit of a doubt, they continue to show their true face. ‪

If you have this gift. Hold it close, because it will serve you well.

Question of the Day

How was your weekend?

Why are Guys scared of the Good Ones?

Not too long ago, a friend met a guy that was relationship material. He was smart, cute, love to read and did I say cute?

Anywho, they went on a few dates and then, he stopped. My friend said he no longer received any 'Good Morning' texts or daily calls. Later, my friend received a text that basically said they couldn't date because my friend has their life together and he can't 'Keep Up' with him.

Hmm, maybe it's just me, but I would want to date someone who was well put together. Why would I want someone who's a mess? After hearing this story, I was reminded of the guys who are intimidated by the good ones... And then I shook my head madly.

Why are guys scared of good ones? I mean, you meet a good guy and then you reject him because he is... good for you? Guys, if you're the ones who are pushing the good ones away, stop it now! Check yourself and ask why are you doing this? I could guess and say it's self-esteem. For many of us, self confidence/esteem is the war we fight for a lifetime.

But take a moment and see what's going on. A good, decent guy wants you and accepts you for who you are. Take a chance, don't run from it.

Don't deny yourself from possible happiness.

I wish I could find a good one, because when I do, I'm going for it.

I can't, I won't let a good one walk away, and you shouldn't either. Get over yourself and get that good stuff!

Remember, you deserve it... You deserve someone good in your life.

Sometimes, in Life...

You are your own worst enemy, and your greatest hero

Something to Think About

14 Things to Think about in 2014

As well start the new year, I have 14 things to think about as we move forward.

1. Stop playing the victim. Save yourself and fight another day.
2. Demand the best from others and yourself.
3. Own your issues.
4. Strive to be the better person.
5. Believe in Love.
6. If you remain angry and pissed off for being wronged, then you'll never heal. Remember, the change starts with you.
7. Learn from the journey.
8. Know your faults and fix them.
9. Take long walks.
10. Buy a new outfit.
11. Enjoy sex.
12. Tell someone you love them.
13. Do Better.
14. Always eat Fries.

Random Thought

I've been my own White Knight for so long... I don't know what else to be.

Sometimes, you got to do this to get by

Never Forget

Life Lesson #234

You will always be hurt, but you may not be Loved

Words from Me

When life's no crystal stair, keep climbing

Thoughts... Guys

It's always interesting to see some guys work so hard to get some, but don't work hard to start something substantial. The amount of time certain guys put in Grindr, Scruff and Muff is ridic.

These men need to put some time in making themselves worthy and actually datable.

But why is that so hard for them to do?