Why are Guys scared of the Good Ones?

Not too long ago, a friend met a guy that was relationship material. He was smart, cute, love to read and did I say cute?

Anywho, they went on a few dates and then, he stopped. My friend said he no longer received any 'Good Morning' texts or daily calls. Later, my friend received a text that basically said they couldn't date because my friend has their life together and he can't 'Keep Up' with him.

Hmm, maybe it's just me, but I would want to date someone who was well put together. Why would I want someone who's a mess? After hearing this story, I was reminded of the guys who are intimidated by the good ones... And then I shook my head madly.

Why are guys scared of good ones? I mean, you meet a good guy and then you reject him because he is... good for you? Guys, if you're the ones who are pushing the good ones away, stop it now! Check yourself and ask why are you doing this? I could guess and say it's self-esteem. For many of us, self confidence/esteem is the war we fight for a lifetime.

But take a moment and see what's going on. A good, decent guy wants you and accepts you for who you are. Take a chance, don't run from it.

Don't deny yourself from possible happiness.

I wish I could find a good one, because when I do, I'm going for it.

I can't, I won't let a good one walk away, and you shouldn't either. Get over yourself and get that good stuff!

Remember, you deserve it... You deserve someone good in your life.

Taking Self-Inventory on what you like about Yourself

We spend a lot time talking about what we don't like about ourselves. Just the other day, I was looking at myself, making self notes about what I needed change about me.

Then later that evening, I stumbled on a blog with a post about what he loved about himself. ( I can't find it, to reference it at this point)

I thought it was brilliant and a wonderful thing to do. I think we should take self-inventory of the things we like or love about ourselves. It's healthy and good for the soul.

So I'm listing some my "loves":

I love my big forehead, my sense of humor, my full lips, my creativity, my hair, my calmness, my strength, my ambitiousness, my willingness to learn and adapt, my eyes, my pudgy nose, my ability to see a different side, to understand the craziness of life, my ability to fall and rise up on my feet, and my calves.

You should try this too, I think it's fun and affirming.