To the Supposed Lover of Ovie Mughelli

Okay, last night I talked about this issue involving Atlanta Falcons fullback, Ovie Mughelli and this scorned lover that HAD to out him in order to right wrongs.

Well the 'lover' made a video to explain his reasoning

So here are my views

• This carefully done to somewhat avoid a lawsuit. However, this message defeats the point of this tirade.
• If you are not calling him gay, then what's the frakking point? Again, trying avoid a lawsuit.
• You had alleged relationship with him that ended 3 YEARS AGO! Let go!
• This proves nothing. Unless you have a sex tape, this could be labeled as a crush gone bad.
• If this is your way of dealing with a break-up, then you will single forever. Who will trust you after this?
• What did you hope to gain from this?
  
• You say it's not about the money. However, for 3 years you said nothing, until Ovie starts hitting big and now you want to 'out' him. Erica Kane would be proud.

But you know what, mystery man? I will agree that you are a victim.

You are a victim of Miss Jia's greed and opportunistic actions. You are a victim of being and accepting the role as a sideline piece and not the star; and you are a victim of your own pettiness.

Now some will say this guy's heart was broken and his reaction is a classic response. But outing anyone for revenge is unacceptable. Three years has passed, there are no excuses for this. So, I have to say this is a bitter act.

However, I hope you get help so you can heal, because it's going to get rocky. Deadspin, a sport blog, reports that Ovie's lawyers will be dealing with Miss Jia and him soon.

So, I hope this was worth it, because you may go down for this... and not in a good way.

My 45 Cents on the Ovie Mughelli Drama

While I was meditating at Castle Greyskull, I received some vibrations of foolishness.

It's all about the Atlanta Falcons fullback, Ovie Mughelli and the jilted ex-lover who claimed he had "no choice" but to out him.

This is pure mess, but I'll break this down the best way I can.

So, Ovie and this mystery man has supposedly been fooling around since college. It was mostly sexual and Ovie would ask for money from the guy from time to time. After a couple years of this, Ovie broke it off and the guy was hurt. Then they start f**king again, briefly and Ovie broke it off, again. Now, here's the J.R. Ewing moment, the guy claimed that Ovie invited him to talk about their relationship. Ovie had a lawyer there and slipped the guy hush money. He didn't take it, but he was hurt.

That's the alleged story. But here are the interesting pieces from the guy:

The reason I have decided to come out with this story is because I have given him more than enough time to right this wrong. To not treat me like a skeleton in his closet, but to speak to me, man to man about the situation, and why he turned our relationship into a would-be scandal.

Child Cheese, you think going on a gossip site is better? He didn't turn this into a scandal, your broke ass did!

To this day, I have no idea what was in that envelope, but there is no amount of money that will heal a scorned heart. And now he needs to man up, if he can even call himself that, and stop living a lie.

You need to MAN UP and reveal yourself!

I have a life I need to live also, and the only way to bring closure to this situation is to get it off my chest. As I stated, I gave him over 2 years to right this wrong. He left me no choice, I have to do it my way.

So you out him, send this letter out for public notice and think this is closure? You are a fool! 2 years has passed and you are still holding on? And I love that you felt you had to do this your way. YOU HAVE A PROBLEM! The type like Alex on Fatal Attraction, Seek Help!

My other issue is with the Miss Jia website. She was the first to post the story, stating that she was trying to help the human race.

A lot of you questioned why I agreed to post this and “blast” a guy living his life on the DL. Simple. I could’ve been that woman…your friend could’ve been that gay man. It could’ve been anybody. When I first read this guy’s letter, I felt his emotion and although I would’ve been like MANY of you and at LEAST looked inside the envelope, I will say that you can’t really judge how a person handles their emotions when they’ve been hurt. Now, I’m not saying that it’s okay for people to just kill folks all nilly willy but when you’re mad, you’re mad. Please believe that hell hath no fury like a woman a gay man scorned.

Girl, don't make me laugh. Quoting Storm from Uncanny X-Men 243 (Inferno Saga):

"That is the cheapest of excuses and I will not let you hide behind it."

You "blasted" this guy for hits, pure and simple. Would you have posted this if it wasn't Ovie Mughelli? And this story really doesn't have proof, besides some receipts and pictures without the other guy. Why post this? Please stop playing and just say you did this for the ratings.

Miss Jia is a frakking GOSSIP BLOG, who do you think you are foolin' ?

To the secret lover scorned, grow up and get counseling.

To Miss Jia, I ain't mad at you, but be real about your intentions.

P.S. I removed the link to Miss Jia, she thinks I trying to get some traffic. I don't need to out someone for that.