Showing posts with label Haterade. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Haterade. Show all posts

Thursday, July 5, 2012

Why are Some Gays Hatin' on Anderson and Frank for Coming Out?


It is very interesting to hear a lot of negativity about Anderson Cooper and Frank Ocean coming out. For some reason, some gays feel that their coming out is divisive, too late or too much. But seriously, our views don't matter because it's none of our business.

Let me break this down for the haters:
  • This is THEIR coming out experience, not yours and don't try to make it so. This is not about you, so stop trying to put your views in their lives.
  • They don't own us anything, this is their lives.
  • Everyone's coming out experience is different. Why they came out now vs. then is again, their business. You can't be upset about someone's reasons for coming out. You should be happy about their decision to be open and honest.
  • This is their lives and they should live it the way they supposed to. You should do the same.
  • Why are they creating this hostile environment for newly out people. When folks come out, the last thing they need is judgement from the fam.
Let's try to be happy for these individuals and stop hatin'. It doesn't get anyone anywhere and it's a waste of time.

So let's just get along and move on.

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Please Let Obama Mutha F**king Speak! Yes, this is a Rant


So I'm back in my defending Obama mode...

I am bothered by folks talking about what Obama's going to say, what he should say and what he needs to say.

Pipe down, folks!

Whatever he's going to say, I'm hopeful it will be good. But it feels like if he says anything it ain't going to satisfy anybody.

It's ridic that the community is getting all big in the mouth about his speech Saturday night.

He's going to do what he can with what he's got. We saw how health care went down, do we think LGBT rights will any easier? My God, I think some folks are living in Wonderland went it comes to this issue.


This is all I ask from our community.
  • Stop predicting he will say nothing that's good enough.
  • Stop hoping for a disaster in his speech.
  • Stop complaining about the time it may take to repeal DADT. Until WE come up with an initial plan to overturn DADT, we should not get pissed off. Hell, they are trying to do the s**t right, let them do it!
  • Stop talking about how Obama can multi-task. I don't want my rights in midst of FEMA, the UN and when Bo will get his nuts cut off.
Let's try something new, folks. How about we hope for the best. With any great movement, it takes time and patience. I'm done with some us acting like the gay teabaggers.

Okay, I done ranting.

Thursday, April 30, 2009

Just how much Obama-Favored Haterade is Queerty Drinking?


Before I begin, I want to say that I enjoy reading Queerty. It’s entertaining, informative, it’s gay. But recently the folks over there are treating Obama like he gave them herpes or something.

Yesterday, they presented 2 articles on how Obama don’t really give a crap about us. One article focused on how late he was on the Hate Crimes bill and the other touches on his lack of support for the gay community.

Here's some examples
  • He's said he's too busy with the economy to get around to marriage equality. He's let his secretary of defense tell the world that Don't Ask Don't Tell might get repealed, which is the same as saying it might not. For all his talk about health care, he's done nothing to let gay people share benefits with their same-sex partners. There are no protections in place to keep us from getting fired from our jobs for being gay, even though we're losing paychecks like every other American. Immigrants are being deported because they cannot legally marry their same-sex partners.
  • Wow! Thank you, Mr. President! But, uh, aren't you weighing in on this a little bit late? Why has it taken you until the day before Congress will go to a vote to make a statement about the Local Law Enforcement Hate Crimes Prevention Act? And your support for it? And that you want Congress to pass it? Sure, Obama has had a busy first 100 days, but he's also got a giant team of gophers at his disposal, ready and willing to deliver statements — however meaningful — of support or disgust. And yet this is the first time since Obama was elected that he's made any (public) effort to get on Congress' back to get this bill passed. (We asked the White House's director of specialty media Shin Inouye to confirm this was the first time Obama specifically addressed the matter. Inouye tells Queerty "I'd have to check on specifics." We'll let you know what we hear.)


These articles are somewhat disingenuous and similar to how a jealous ex would sound towards the new bf. Seriously, the writer acts as if our issues outweigh every Gott-Damn-Thing that’s happening in our country!

Now, I would completely understand if the country was on track and nothing was going on. However, that’s not the case. We are hanging by our Lee press-on nails, hoping that we can avoid another economic fallout or the crazy ass North Korea’s test rockets. Then we have the war and looming doom that it creates. But somewhere down the line, somebody in Queerty has this Magneto-ish belief that we must come first.

He just got into the White House! He just got the ball rolling on the economy! Hell, what good are any of our liberties if our country is on life support! Until these major issues are in a safe zone, we will just have to wait. We have time, we ain’t going anywhere. It’s only been 4 frakking months! Just 4! Good things are happening to the gay community and our time is coming.

Maybe I'm too optimistic or way off, but I'm also realistic. There are deals and people to win over in order to pass bills and overturn stuff. There is a game to be played in politics and some things outweigh others. Is it fair? No, but at least we have someone who's playing in our best interest. I hope the writer(s) at Queerty understands that.

This is not the time to act like entitled arrogant kids. We need to give Obama more time before we draw up some busted analysis. After 4 years, if we have not made any progress then we need to develop a plan. I realize that folks are angry, but to blindly run amok with this Obama-don't- care really does nothing for anyone.

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Viktor is a small town southern boy living in Los Angeles. You can find him on Twitter, writing about pop culture, politics, and comics. He’s the creator of the graphic novel StrangeLore and currently getting back into screenwriting.