The Top 10 Promiscuous Gay Cities In America

This is interesting and somewhat sad. SeekingArrangement.com asked 11,000 gay folks about the top hook-up cities. Let me rephrase that... the top 10 'Booty, Booty' cities in America.

And here they are:

1. West Hollywood 
2. Washington, D.C. 
3. San Francisco
4. Seattle 
5.  Columbus, OH 
6.  Chicago
7. San Diego 
8.  NYC 
9.  Houston 
10. ATL
    

I co-sign on all of these, especially WeHo, it's a mess... I just realized that I've been to all of these cities at least twice. 

A4A, Grindr, Bear 411... Let's Upgrade these Sites

Grindr, Scruff, Adam 4 Adam are just a few of the 50 gazillion sites where gays can meet (hook up).

 But I don't think they get to the heart of the matter. S,o I have some suggestions to upgrade these sites.

• Guys can't post just cock and butt pics. It has to be full body (with face) pics. Don't hide, if you want to do the 'booty booty' you should be completely upfront about it.
• Take the out the FRIENDS option. Let's be real, who is actually looking for 'friends' on Scruff? 
• There should be a minute clip of you in action. Meaning, you should be required to post a minute clip of you giving oral, dancing, having sex and whatnot. I think it would be nice to see what you are getting and if it's worth it.  I think about it, you can see if they have the skills or not. Think about the time and drama you can save.
• Only up-to-date pics. You can not post pics from 1998 in 2011, claiming that's how you look now.
• There should be a chart that shows everyone who you've hooked up with. Then, you would know if your ex, friend or uncle have slept with your possible f**k buddy.
• Location... True Location.
• Only OUT gays. No closeted or married men allowed.

Maybe they already do these things.  I just saw some of these sites for the first time (from my roommate during Netroots Nation).  But if they don't, I think they should. Hooking up should be completely on the real tip.

When are you Too Old to Hook-Up?

A friend of mind just told me that he is too old to be hooking-up with guys. He just turn 30 and now he's in the "find a husband" mode.

I asked him, "Why do you think you're too old?"

He believes that no good man would want a barfly over the age of 30. A good man wants another good man. Now, mind you that my friend and I are from the South, so we have weird and ancient views of morals and virtue.

I told him that a good man with accept everything about you if he likes you. But my friend disagrees with me; he still thinks if your whoring it out after 30, you're damaged.

I can't really explain his logic, plenty of single men over 30 have active sex lives and they are not damaged. I just don't get why he's holding on to this foolishness. If you like a guy and mood is right, there's nothing wrong with a little 'pudding tasting'. That's 2 grown men making a decision that is usually good for the both of them (sometimes).

The fact that you are considered "damaged" is crazy. I told my friend that he should lighten up. He should have his standards, but have a little fun too.