Sigh . . .situation I'm sorta dealing with now, but I'm the person that walked in on this open relationship business. I was fully aware of the openness of the relationship (it's not like was expecting to connect with the guy, but I did).
The more we've grown in our rapport, the more I don't agree with his other "relationship," but it makes things hard. We're not official as far as proclaiming that we are, but it seems like a quiet acceptance.
At this point, I'm on the fence if I want to continue dealing with it. I'm a one man kinda guy, and knowing that he is in an open relationship with someone else is not cool. Again, sigh.
Yes, if there was one rule: Don't Ask, Don't Tell.
ReplyDeleteNo. Open Relationship = prettied up fucking around.
ReplyDeleteWhy even be in a relationship?
No V. I think it would just be asking for trouble.
ReplyDeleteSigh . . .situation I'm sorta dealing with now, but I'm the person that walked in on this open relationship business. I was fully aware of the openness of the relationship (it's not like was expecting to connect with the guy, but I did).
ReplyDeleteThe more we've grown in our rapport, the more I don't agree with his other "relationship," but it makes things hard. We're not official as far as proclaiming that we are, but it seems like a quiet acceptance.
At this point, I'm on the fence if I want to continue dealing with it. I'm a one man kinda guy, and knowing that he is in an open relationship with someone else is not cool. Again, sigh.
But to answer the question . . . NO! lol, even though I'm dealing with it right now. A mess, ain't it?
ReplyDeleteWe were exclusive for the first 25 years... now we are allowed an adventure now & then, sometimes as a team.
ReplyDeleteI don't know to be honest. Being single and often the "other man" it isn't a black and white issue for me.
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