The things I learn from my Friends

One of my friends, The Boy from Ohio, has some interesting beliefs about sex and friendship.

He can hook up with a guy without feeling any emotional attachment. He calls it fun, "We're just having fun, that's all," he says.

But here's the catch... If they start falling for him, he cuts them off, claiming they're taking it too far. I asked him why he drops them so easily and he said, "I don't want any drama. If they get caught up, it's their fault."

He also believes it okay to fool around with his friends because it's a part of the friendship deal. He says it's a clause of the friendship contract. I ain't never heard of that, but he swears by it. Now, I haven't slept with my friends. I think that's a line you shouldn't cross, but The Boy from Ohio... Let's just say if I was single, he would try to sleep with me.

And finally, he thinks a pity f**k is a great thing to do for a less attractive friend. He said it's like a gift you give to a loyal companion. When I asked what happens if the less attractive friend gets attached, he said, "It's their fault it they get caught up, I was just doing them a favor."

We talked about this for hours and still I didn't get it. However, it's his views and he's my friend.

But I tell y'all, he makes me feel like an old fashion gal with a strict Christian upbringing sometimes.