Thursday, May 9, 2013

Just because I'm Black, doesn't make me a Top


Some gay men may need training about race and sexual roles.

For some (stupid) reason, guys still believe if you're, Asian you're automatically a bottom and if you're Black, you're a top.

This is no joke. Guys have approached me assuming that I am a top. In fact, one guy tried to convince me that I was a top. Seriously?

If you are over the age of 30, you shouldn't be making horrible generalizations like that. I'm not a top, so please don't get excited thinking of racial stereotypes when you think of me.

Fantasies are cool, but assumptions are not. If you like a guy, please don't believe foolish stereotypes. Just ask.

You will feel better about it later.
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6 comments:

  1. Roger PoladopoulosMay 9, 2013 at 4:22 AM

    So true, my friend! Excellent point that is applicable beyond merely the sexual context!

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  2. behrmarkMay 9, 2013 at 4:43 AM

    I've never understood why sexual role was so important. Can't we all just cuddle?

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  3. RustyMay 9, 2013 at 2:41 PM

    yeah its super annoying. Especially hearing over and over "oh I thought you were a thug/bad boy/tough guy.." and all of them turning out to be extremely sexually boring and submissive, looking for a "Man" to do all the work.

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  4. kaymanMay 9, 2013 at 4:14 PM

    LMAO, I've gone over this one once before on my own blog.

    http://blkindependent.blogspot.com/2012/10/im-going-to-dedicate-5-minutes-of-my.html

    It's tacky and sad how some white guys stereotype black guys and assign us to a specify sexual role. Uh negative.

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  5. AnonymousMay 11, 2013 at 10:00 PM

    I can be a top or bottom it doesn't matter to me at all.

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  6. UnknownMay 16, 2013 at 10:37 AM

    Eye roll at roles . . . it still baffles me

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