I have many exes because I've dated way too much for several decades. I'm still friendly with my ex-husband since you're never completely separated from them if you have children together. One of my exes and I are still in touch and friends. A few others are friendly and all when we see each other but not really friends. With the others we parted ways and that was it. I wish I could hear from one of them I'm worried about. We stayed close for a long time.
Oddly, I am with my first, although we lost touch for several years. Now we follow each other on Twitter and on Facebook. Go figure. My second and I emailed about a year ago, but did not stay in touch.
With the first, No. A lot of shame and self-loathing on both sides of that relationship. With the second, Always. It was with him that I came out to my family.
I have many exes because I've dated way too much for several decades. I'm still friendly with my ex-husband since you're never completely separated from them if you have children together. One of my exes and I are still in touch and friends. A few others are friendly and all when we see each other but not really friends. With the others we parted ways and that was it. I wish I could hear from one of them I'm worried about. We stayed close for a long time.
ReplyDeleteOddly, I am with my first, although we lost touch for several years. Now we follow each other on Twitter and on Facebook. Go figure. My second and I emailed about a year ago, but did not stay in touch.
ReplyDeletei AM STILL FRIENDS...WE HAVE NO ISSUES.
ReplyDeletei AM COOL LIKE THAT THOUGH
i AM NOT FRIENDS WITH ONE THOUGH...I WAS SHOCKED AND PISSED - STILL AM
With the first, No. A lot of shame and self-loathing on both sides of that relationship.
ReplyDeleteWith the second, Always. It was with him that I came out to my family.
I am with one of them - not the rest.
ReplyDeleteI am friends with only 2. My partner of 2 years added me to his Facebook, but we really don't talk.
ReplyDeleteV, definitely not. Those roads are completely closed now. I tried to be friends with my first, for a long time, but it ended up being destructive.
ReplyDeleteYes I am. my exes seem to appreciate that I am a good man, after the fact. I don't hold any grudges.
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